182. Body Confidence 101: Feeling Great in Your Own Skin NOW
Jun 13, 2025Confidence doesn’t magically appear after you hit your goal weight. It starts now—in the body you already have. In this powerful episode, Kara Hackleman dives into the raw, honest truth about body image and teaches you how to stop waiting to feel confident, worthy, and whole.
If you've ever said, “I'll do that when I lose weight…”—this one’s for you.
🔑 Key Points Covered:
- The real reason we criticize our bodies first (spoiler: it’s a defense mechanism)
- How comparing yourself to “standards” steals your joy
- Why women put life on hold waiting to feel worthy
- The myth that body confidence comes after weight loss
- Simple mindset shifts to build confidence starting TODAY
- What to do when summer activities trigger body shame
- Practicing new, empowering self-talk (including a 2-for-1 strategy!)
- Why you deserve joy, fun, and belonging right now
📚 Resources & Links:
💻 Free Webinar:
📌 Everything Your Doctor Wants YOU to Know About Losing Weight
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📞 Get Personal Support:
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Let’s uncover what’s keeping you stuck and create a plan for confidence that lasts.
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Read more at www.coachingkara.com/blog
📱 Download the I Am App – an affirmation app Kara mentions for building self-kindness.
✨ Memorable Quotes:
“Confidence doesn’t come after you lose weight. It comes from how you show up in the body you have right now.”
“If you wouldn’t say it to your best friend, why are you saying it to yourself?”
“Your body isn’t the main character in the story—you are. Let yourself live.”
🔁 Try This Challenge:
- Write down the critical thoughts you hear yourself say.
- Ask: Would I say this to someone I love?
- Replace each negative with TWO positive truths—about your body, your spirit, or your strength.
- Wear something you’ve been avoiding. Just for YOU.
- Walk into your next event with a powerful, intentional thought like: “I belong here.”
